How to Build Confidence Without Being a Jerk


It was New Year’s 2009: I was sitting on the bedroom floor of my New York City apartment and wondering why, despite everything I’d accomplished, I wasn’t happy. I knew that I needed to build confidence.

The problem? I’d been taught that in order to be confident, I needed to keep achieving, and to keep setting and blasting through goals. That’s what every successful person seemed to do.

But when I saw myself, I was a success on paper, but inside, I felt like a fraud.</p…

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