It’s date night. Or date morning, as is mostly the case for me. Time to set aside the world and its worries. Time to sit down and savor someone delicious, someone I love. We don’t get to spend enough time together. The kind of time that meanders without agenda or goals or any kind of ideas of improvement; a straight-up hang out session. Sometimes I show up eager and open, other times I’m stressed or scattered with tons on my mind. Sometimes I’m just tired.
But no matter. I can arrive in any state; regardless how I come, I always leave feeling better, happier, more in love.
Our relationship is complicated. I can be mean, demanding, unsatisfied, and bossy. I’m not always a great listener. This quality time together is meant specifically to soothe and heal all of that. Away from distractions and responsibilities, it’s a time to move out of the (often negative speaking) head and into the joy of the heart.
So I do it everyday. I sit down and practice welcoming myself however I appear. I soften judgement, criticism and all those imperatives to be better or different than right now.
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